What Do I Spend My Time Thinking About?

25th Sunday in Ordinary Time (Sept. 21, 2025) — What Do I Spend My Time Thinking About?

This weekend, we’re asked to pause and pay attention to our own thoughts: What do I actually spend the most time focusing on each day? Is it worries about the world, struggles at home or work, or concerns for our children and families? Or is it God’s kingdom, my role as His disciple, and how I live that out?

St. Paul reminds us in today’s readings that our thoughts and concerns don’t have to spiral into worry or discouragement. Instead, they can be transformed into prayer, into trust in God, and into the energy of discipleship. “First of all, I ask that supplications, prayers, petitions, and thanksgivings be offered for everyone… lifting up holy hands, without anger or argument” (1 Tim 2).

Jesus also says in the Gospel, “No servant can serve two masters.” One practical way to discern who we’re serving is to notice what we think and talk about most. Is it our anxieties—or the Lord?

This week, simply pay attention: Do my concerns lead me deeper into worry, or do they become fuel for prayer and for living as Christ’s disciple?

Feast of the Exaltation of the Holy Cross: How Should Christians Respond?

Feast of the Exaltation of the Holy Cross  — How Should Christians Respond?

24th Sunday in Ordinary Time (Sept. 14, 2025) This weekend, we celebrate the Feast of the Exaltation of the Holy Cross. The Cross, once a sign of suffering and death, has become for us the ultimate sign of hope: the place where God’s love conquered sin and death.

In light of recent tragedies, including the heartbreaking shooting at Annunciation Catholic School in Minneapolis, how are we as Christians called to respond?

  • With prayer — not as a last resort, but as a powerful act that lifts the suffering to God.

  • Through the sacraments — especially the Eucharist and confession, where Christ’s grace enters our broken world.

  • By intentional relationships — reaching out, befriending, and witnessing God’s love to those who may feel unseen.

  • With courage as disciples — stepping out of our comfort zones to share the Gospel, even if it feels uncomfortable or seems to make only a small difference.

The Cross reminds us that love is stronger than death, and Christ is stronger than violence. Even if it feels like there’s just a 1% chance that our words or actions could help someone turn back to God, that 1% is worth it — because eternity is at stake.

So we lift high the Cross: proclaiming the love of Christ, living as disciples with conviction, and trusting that God can transform even tragedy into hope.

Catholic Services Appeal Weekend

This weekend we begin our Catholic Services Appeal (CSA) — the annual appeal that sustains our Diocese in Northern Wisconsin.

  • St. Joseph Parish Goal: $65,127

  • St. Ann Parish Goal: $15,973
    (We met our goals last year, and with your help, we can do it again!)

But this isn’t just about meeting a financial goal. The true call is to grow in Prayerful Generosity:

  • Prayerful — Jesus prayed for us and intercedes for us.

  • Generous — Jesus gave his life for us.

Why Support the CSA?

  • Funds the education and formation of seminarians (7 this year, most in 16 years, at $50,000 per seminarian annually).

  • Brings international priests to serve our parishes (currently 26 of our 42 active priests are international).

  • Supports youth faith experiences (Extreme Faith Camp, Totus Tuus, March for Life, retreats).

  • Offers adult retreats and formation.

  • Provides essential administrative and legal guidance for parishes.

  • Strengthens Catholic schools, including St. Francis Solanus in our cluster.

How to Give

  • Use CSA envelopes mailed to you or found at church entrances/bulletins. Return in the collection, bring to the parish office, or mail directly.

  • Give online at haywardcatholic.org under the Give tab, designating the 2025–2026 CSA for St. Joseph or St. Ann.

Any amount above our goal comes back to our parishes!


Challenge: Grow in Prayerful Generosity. Give more this year than last — and pray for the causes you support. In doing so, we become more like Jesus.

Retirement: For Me or For God?

Retirement: For Me or For God? 

18th Sunday in Ordinary Time – 08/03/25

In today’s Gospel, Jesus tells of a wealthy man who stored up riches for himself, only to be called a fool by God—not for working hard, but for forgetting eternity. He lived as though his future belonged to him, not to God.

This challenges us in a culture that views retirement as finally doing what we want. The Christian question is different: Is retirement about me, or is it about God and others?

  • Ecclesiastes reminds us that work without God is vanity.

  • St. Paul urges us to “seek what is above” and put on Christ.

Retirement, then, isn’t the reward for decades of labor. It’s a new vocation—a fresh opportunity to serve, love, and live for God more freely. The Christian mission never retires.

Key Questions:

  • Am I investing my time, resources, and energy in what matters to God?

  • Am I growing as His disciple and helping others come to Him?

True retirement is not self-indulgence, but self-gift. Not vanity, but eternal value. Every day, even in small hidden moments, we are called to glorify God and bring souls to Him.

Wanting to Want “All”

15th Sunday in Ordinary Time (07/13/25) Wanting to Want “All”

In this episode, we reflect on Jesus’ call to love God with all our heart, soul, strength, and mind—a total, undivided love. We ask the honest question: Do I really love God with all, or just a lot, a majority, or maybe only some? This homily challenges us to move from partial devotion to wholehearted surrender, inviting us to desire a deeper, fuller love for God that shapes every part of our lives.

True Freedom

14th Sunday in Ordinary Time | 07/06/25

This week, we reflect on the meaning of freedom—not just as Americans celebrating Independence Day, but as Christians sent into the world. True freedom isn’t about doing whatever we want; it’s the gift of choosing love, sacrifice, and God’s will. In the Gospel, Jesus sends out seventy-two disciples two by two—not alone, but united in mission and reliant on God’s grace. Their joy comes not from their own accomplishments but from seeing what God did through them. As we cherish our country’s liberty, we’re reminded that freedom without virtue can lead us astray. Christian freedom is always “freedom for”—for holiness, justice, and love of neighbor. This episode challenges us to step out of comfort zones and use our freedom to transform the world for Christ.

Pray for Us

Solemnity of Saints Peters and Paul

We are not on this journey of faith alone.  We turn to each other so naturally when we need help, especially to our friends and family.  The saints are our friends in heaven, our family in heaven; they are alive in Christ!  So ask for their help, their prayers, their support as fellow members of the Body of Christ.

St. Peter…pray for us.
St. Paul…pray for us.
All you holy men and women…pray for us.

Great Things!

Pentecost Sunday

God is doing great things here in our family of parishes!  More people are coming to Church; more young couples are attending Mass; more kids are being baptized; more families are joining the Church; more people are becoming Catholic — great things are happening here because of you and your witness!

God’s Spirit is being poured out in other places as well.   God is doing great things in vocations in our diocese.  God is doing great things at St. Francis de Sales Seminary in Milwaukee (where we send our graduate seminarians in final preparation for priesthood).

Ascending

Ascension Sunday

We are called to follow where Christ our Savior went first.  We, like Jesus, are called to be light enough to ascend to the Father: some things weigh us down, and some things raise us up.  Do you ever feel heavy?  Do you ever feel weighed down?  Jesus wants to lighten your load.

Ask Jesus for the grace today, ask the Holy Spirit for the power today: “Lord, give me the grace and the power to let go of one more thing I’m holding onto that’s weighing me down.  And Lord, help me with your grace and power to take one more step in an area that will raise me up!”

“Thank You, God”

6th Sunday of Easter

On this Memorial Day Weekend, we give thanks to God for the lives we are able to live in our country as we remember those who have died while serving in our Armed Forces, protecting us and upholding the rights and liberties which we enjoy here and now; we remember them and we pray for eternal rest and peace for their souls.

If I’m being totally honest, though, in my day-to-day life, I usually take these freedoms for granted.  I also take many of the blessings of life for granted…and the people God has placed in my life for granted…and the incredible gift of forgiveness of sins in Jesus and eternal life for granted…and our incredible Catholic faith for granted… So if you’re anything like me, let’s pause this week, and intentionally give thanks to God this day for all of His many gifts!